Wine, say some. Wisdom, say others But for me?It’s perspective. When you’re younger, everything feels urgent. Every mistake feels final. Every …
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This post celebrates a life of learning shaped by logic, language, and curiosity. With a degree in computer science and creative writing certificates…
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We often look for visible results—something to prove that we’re getting somewhere. But the quiet progress? The invisible kind? That’s often the most powerful of all.
The moment you say no to self-doubt. The choice to rest instead of quitting. The breath you take before responding in love.
These are victories, too. And they matter.
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What time do you go to bed and wake up currently?
Lately, I go to bed around 10 to 11 PM and wake up between 6 and 7 AM. My mornings usually start with opening the door for our nanny who stays in the outside quarters. Nights are a bit more personal—after putting the kids to bed at 8, I use the time between 8 and 10 for myself. That’s when I wind down, journal, write, watch a movie or TV, or enjoy soft music. It’s also when my husband and I get a little quality time together, which we both really value.
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There have been days when I felt like I was making progress, only to fall right back into old habits. Days where I questioned if anything I was doing even mattered.
Maybe you’ve had those days too.
But here’s what I’ve come to believe: a setback is not a sign that you’ve failed. It’s a reminder that you’re human. That you’re trying. That you’re still in motion—even if it doesn’t feel like it.
Sometimes the greatest strength is not found in how fast you grow, but in how gently you stand back up when you fall.
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We all love a good before-and-after story. The ones where everything changes in a moment. Where the struggle turns into success and the pain turns into purpose, just like that.
But real life? Real growth? It’s not that neat.
Growth is not a straight road. It’s a winding path—with detours, delays, and days when you feel like you’re walking in circles. And still, it’s worth it. You are worth it.
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What if—right in that moment—everything goes wrong?
What if the plan fails, the door shuts, or the road ends?
Take this chance anyway.
Take one step forward—anyway.
Yes, you will face roadblocks.
But hear me:
Roadblocks don’t mean the end.
They mean you’ve reached a place that requires new thinking.
And as you look for solutions…
You’re still climbing.
You’re still growing.
You’re still rising.
Every obstacle is a step up—if you keep moving.
So please—don’t stop trying.
Don’t stop believing.
Every moment is a new chance.
Every second is an invitation…
to take that next step,
to change your story,
to keep writing your healing journey.”
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When you begin to shift your thoughts—even just a little—you open the door to possibility. The way you see yourself starts to change. The way you approach your day feels lighter. The way you love others becomes more generous—because you’ve learned to love yourself, too.
So today, I invite you to choose one thought. Just one. A thought that speaks life. A thought that reminds you of who you’re becoming, not what you fear. Say it. Write it. Hold it close.
Let that be your start.
Because change doesn’t begin when everything is perfect. It begins when you believe it’s possible.
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Talk to yourself like someone you love. Not just on the good days, but on the messy ones too. Especially on the messy ones.
When you’re tired, when you’re unsure, when you feel like giving up—remind yourself:
- “I’m learning. I don’t have to have it all figured out.”
- “Every step counts, even the small ones.”
- “I am showing up, and that matters.”
Because it does matter. You matter. And what you say to yourself matters the most.
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Let me tell you what I’ve been learning (and still learning): just because I think something doesn’t mean it’s true. And just because it’s hard to believe something good about myself doesn’t mean it’s not real.
You are allowed to change how you speak to yourself. You are allowed to tell a better story.
A story where you’re not the one who’s always behind—but the one who’s growing at her own pace.
A story where you’re not defined by past mistakes—but by your daily courage to keep going.